Our family had planned to visit family this holiday season, but family is sick.  We have been home all day vegging out and spending time together.

Our turkey is frozen because we had planned on visiting family, so instead we are changing the menu for tonight to Chicken Alfredo :-).  Once our turkey is thawed most likely by Sunday we will have our Thanksgiving meal then.

The last week and a half have been difficult for our family.  I have learned to accept the things that have happened, and do my best to try to make things better.  It feels good to finally accept that and not continue drowning in my own self pity.

On Tuesday night my lil guy who is 18 months was throwing up off and on from midnight till 6am in the morning.  I myself spent more time out of bed than in it, if you know what I mean.

This morning everyone is doing better but not out of the woods yet.  On top of feeling terrible, I had to drop all my phone shifts.  Feeling like poop and not making any extra money, darn I just can’t shake it.

I have scoured thru our bills and have downgraded our tv to the most minimal pkg and have also eliminated the pest control company.

I will start to do the pest control myself till it is absolutely necessary to go back to the pest control company which I hope is not for a long time.

My husband has been doing his own brainstorming and has come up with a way we think we can sell the house and move into an apartment.  I pray that it works out for us we won’t know till after the new year if it will work out.  Once we are out of the house, our financial stress will decrease quite a bit and we will be able to breath easier.

As of right now we are cutting really really close we have approx 40.00 if that for the unexpected expense, which is not good but it is what it is for the time being.

My husband is looking for a second job and I am continuing to work my wah job.  Mine is not a steady income it varies so it is not something I can count on but it is the only thing I have left at this time.

More updates to come.